Cain spent the past long weekend at the vet, where we boarded him while we traveled out west to visit our son, daughter-in-law and grandson. He never seems to resist going to the vet, thank goodness, but he’s clearly excited and ready to go when we come to take him home. This time he nearly jumped through the car window when we pulled into our driveway and within seconds he was through the house and out the back door to his “kingdom” where he overlooks the yard and reigns supreme.
Over the past several years, our immediate family has grown and scattered, driven by love, careers and other economic factors. Two weddings, m
ultiple job pursuits and a grandson later, our expanded family now finds itself in three different states (after stops in five others), hoping to find some way to close the distance and get us back together again. In the meantime, we all do our best to visit each other as much as possible, relying on cell phones, video calls, social media, emails and instant messanging to fill the gaps in between.
Weekend trips are, of course, the most realistic and practical option for seeing our kids these days, primarily due to work schedules and the scarcity
of valuable vacation days. And while we dearly cherish these short visits together, they do present some challenges, with time being the most precious. Trying to balance the need to spend quality time together vs. the risk of smothering each other and disrupting individual freedoms and routines is often difficult. Squeezing weeks and months of lost family time into a single weekend can be like slugging down a six-pack of Red Bull energy drinks – it gets you pumped up and overly-focused on enjoying each minute until all too soon true reality sets in and you come crashing down with the recognition that it’s time to leave. Still, we always look forward to our trips to see our kids (or having them come see us). And all of our visits are wonderful – at least for my wife and I. This past weekend was another great one.
I think we’d all prefer the more even-keeled pace, frequent drop-ins and level of comfort that would come from living in the same city (or even same state!). Hopefully we can find a way to make that happen soon – before the Red Bull runs out.
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Looks like the Red Wings will make the playoffs this year after all – we’re not used to having to sweat it out like this!
Go Spartans – headed for the Final Four!



































